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I don't know much about drag queens and I'm not sure what to trust online. What kind of make-up is used? How long does it take to get ready? Are there songs playing when they perform for the audience? Is it just a catwalk or is there more?


I've been to one drag show but that was at a convention and this will be held in a bar, so I want to make sure I understand what I'm doing so I don't unintentionally hurt the drag community.

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Ozzy Lee Rose
Ozzy Lee Rose
Dec 07, 2022

So the make-up used depends on the queen's preference. From my experience, there isn't a particular brand the drag scene promotes. As long as it's bold, bright, and fits whichever theme the queen is aiming for, then that's what matters. How long it takes to get ready also depends on the person. If the drag queen is tailoring their own outfits, then you gotta factor in how long (and how much) it takes to obtain clothing material then how long it takes to make the outfit. Otherwise, the performer is likely buying their clothes, shoes, and accessories. Depending where the performer is located, there may be LGBTQIA+ friendly stores which have a positive reputation for selling a lot of clothes to performers. These stores may or may not be owned by queer individuals though. Otherwise, performers shop the way everyone else does; on Amazon, visiting stores, even thrift shopping. As an amateur performer, I have a love-hate relationship with getting ready. On the one hand it's fun piecing together a look and putting on the makeup. But it can get tedious, especially if the performer is still learning how to bind and/or tuck. Extra care goes into ensuring the outfit won't "malfunction" during a performance. For bars that host drag shows, they typically host them weekly (on the weekends, like Friday or Saturday). Performers may get one free drink on the house. Although it isn't mandatory, it's considered tasteful and common courtesy to have dollar bills ready to tip the performers with whenever they're interacting with the crowd. Tipping is always appreciated, whether the show is for charity or a competition. Bars that host drag shows, they're going to have a stage. Bars that make more money, typically in bigger cities and downtown, they're more likely to invest in a larger stage, better audio and lighting equipment, and seating. Smaller-time bars will have smaller stages. Depending on how long the bar has been around, and how long it's been hosting drag shows, the size of the bar doesn't necessarily predict or determine how "well" a show is going to go. Huge bars can have few people in the audience, small bars can have too many people packed inside. Smoking and vaping aren't usually permitted inside. Patrons are expected to go out in the back, and hopefully there's a patio area for them to chill out on and chat. Music is always playing. The genres played most depend on the type of bar. You're of course going to have the pop music, EDM, remixes, but also country, modern rap, and old-school hip-hop. About an hour or so before the actual show is what's called a line-up. This is the final deadline a performer has to tell the coordinators that, yes/no they will/will not be performing. If they're performing, the line-up is also the final deadline to submit music to the DJ. Bigger bars with the fancier DJ equipment can download the songs, but smaller bars will likely request you bring your music on a USB and give it to the DJ. Within the hour before showtime, most performers are in the back, getting dressed, chatting with returning patrons, or still trying to get there arriving late. The dressing room usually isn't glamorous. It could be a sizable enough designated area in the back of the bar, or it could barely be a small space shoved next to the (women's) bathroom with some vanity mirrors on the walls. You've got all the wigs on mannequin heads, performers' luggage carrying their outfits and makeup, and everyone running in and out half-dressed trying to get on their final touches. The line up on who performs after who is on a sheet of paper pinned up somewhere. Once the show actually starts (usually around 8pm or 9pm), the music gets much louder and changes to whatever theme the drag show is hosting. The show will have one or two hosts who are performers also and who may or may not be contestants in that show. To buy the DJ and performers more time, the host will talk to the audience (stall) by quipping jokes and making any announcements they were informed about. The actual shows, performers (mostly drag queens but sometimes drag kings and cis performers) don't do a catwalk. They either are rolling, flipping, dancing around or mostly standing in one place. It depends on the vibe of their song and performance. More serious and somber numbers, the performer is likely standing there and lip-syncing, their dress shimmering as the spotlight shines on them. More upbeat numbers, performers will kick up their legs, backflip, anything their body allows them to do lol. And, because this is a bar, sexy numbers are welcomed and encouraged. No one can get fully nude but some strip teasing is allowed. How much the performer interacts with the audience depends on what the performer is comfortable with. They can remain entirely on the stage, or they can walk around tables or down the aisles (depending on the bar/stage floorplan). Spectators will slip them a dollar bill or two, and the performer can blow kisses, wink and smile, even take the money with their teeth or allow an audience member to tuck it in their top or lacy-whatever they're wearing lol. It depends on the performer's personality. What isn't allowed is for the audience to get too rowdy. They aren't permitted to touch performers under any circumstances, unless the performer themselves have initiated that type of exchange. But even with that, the performer will make it clear when that kind of interaction has ended, so if the audience member keeps trying to grope or is catcalling that is frowned upon, Audience members are not allowed on the stage at any given time either, but of course, people when they're drunk get bolder (and more annoying). The performer is given a lot of sovereignty in how rowdy spectators get handled. They can halt their number entirely, grab the microphone, and call out the person. They can wait until after their number and then say something, reminding people of the bar's rules and common courtesy. Bouncers are on standby, if the bar hires them, otherwise an escalated situation is dealt with by bartenders or management. If the performance is also a competition, judges will either be at their own table towards the side, on stage, or huddled near the show hosts. After each number, the show host(s) will comment on the number or the performer themselves, and some spicy bantering is okay; basically anything that gives the audience some fanservice. Shows can end as early as 11pm or last until 2am when the bars close. As for unintentionally hurting the drag community, I'd say that's pretty avoidable so long as you keep an open mind! Every drag queen is different in every possible way. It can either be a very inclusive, family-like community or divisive. And the typical bar/nightlife experiences are to be expected for anyone there, whether they perform or not.

Binders and other tricks

So how do binders work exactly? I know vaguely that some things can cause back problems or damage the chest. What do people who use binders need to know or look out for? May write about the use of binders in one of my books and wanted some basic knowledge.


Also, does breast cup size make binders easier/harder?

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Ozzy Lee Rose
Ozzy Lee Rose
Oct 06, 2022

Great question! For this post, I'll refer to non-binary, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, genderfluid, etc identities as "GNC". Anything that compresses/flattens the chest (for purposes of mitigating gender dysphoria, or simply out of preference) counts as a binder. These include chest binders, compression shirts, sports bras, sarashi wrapping, and trans tape. Breast cup size definitely contributes to the cautions GNC individuals have to take when chest-binding*. The larger the chest, the harder it is, because swells of the breast can still be made out by others and jeopardize the GNC person's chances of passing (i.e. being perceived by others as the gender identity the person identifies with). This is a big deal because, for many GNC individuals, being able to pass ranges from simply feeling good and confident about themselves to keeping themselves physically, emotionally, and psychologically safe. Failure to pass can result (but not always) in experiencing the depression and anxiety associated with gender dysphoria, as well as tipping other people off who may threaten the GNC person out of prejudice, sexism, and/or transphobia. These threats could manifest as microaggressions, discrimination, mistreatment or, unfortunately, aggressive behaviors such as sexual assault and murder. Commercial Binders Like bras, looking for the right binder can be a huge hit-and-miss with the wearer. The bigger the chest size, the more hit-and-miss it gets. I have around around a 38DD cup size and have purchased six to seven binders of different sizes, styles, and material. Some binders out there are simply more snug sports bras. Others have layered material (spandex and nylon) that are secured by metal clasps which can bend out over time, scratch and redden and poke the skin, and get damaged in the washing machine. They also can shrink and virtually turn into an uncomfortable sports bra. To avoid this, instead of machine washing, binder wearers can take care of their binders by doing the following:

  • Hand washing

  • Setting the washing machine to the delicates setting

  • Once washed, hanging up the binder to dry

  • Restricting the amount of time the binder is worn

  • Wearing a thin, lightweight cotton shirt underneath the binder (to lessen trapped odor and discoloration)


Knowing one's breast cup size is important. If the binder is too big, the chest won't be compressed enough. If the binder is too small, the binder fabric will stretch and tear. The larger a GNC person's chest size, the more imperative it is for them to get their measurements done. This can be done by someone in a clothing store or at home with one other person assisting. After that, the wearer might have to do some converting, since there isn't just one standard sizing chart. They'll have to keep their own measurements in mind, then do their best to get the closest fitting binder according to the manufacturer's and/or retailer's bust sizes (especially if purchasing online). It's also important to research sizing charts from the country the wearer may be ordering. To ensure comfort and safety, the wearer should keep the following in mind:

  • Always remove your binding before you sleep

  • Do not wear binding while exercising

  • Remove binding before showering

  • Never wear binding for more than eight hours at a time

  • Take days off from wearing binding when possible

  • Never layer commercial binders

  • Do not wear too-small commercial binders


While the wearer may be tempted to do things such as wear their binder all day or layer commercial binders (especially if they have a large test), this should never be done. I would recommend a wearer to let their breasts "breathe" for a while and wear the biggest oversized shirt they can find (XXL, 3XL, 4XL, and so on). Failure to not be safe while wearing binders can result in dizziness and lightheadedness, skin damage, breast tissue damage, back misalignment, bruising or scarring, and just general fatigue, aches and pains. Also, under no circumstances should plastic wrap, duct tape, or ace nor elastic bandages be used. This damages the skin, can cause an allergic reaction, makes it difficult to breathe, and provides an overall uncomfortable and painful experience. Body powder and anti-chaffing cream can be applied to reduce skin irritation. It's additionally important for the wearer to remain mindful of how they're feeling while binding, no matter the binding method. If they're starting to have difficulty breathing, overheat, feel pain, the binding should be removed as soon as possible and not worn again. It's debatable whether a wearer should exercise in a chest binder, and it is up to the wearer's discretion. It is, however, recommended to exercise in a size larger chest binder so as not to constrict breathing. It's also debatable whether a wearer should put on more than two binding methods at a time. This is also up to the wearer's discretion, but it's even more important in this scenario to keep safety and self-care tips in mind. Commercial binders can be bought online at gc2b.co, Origami Customs, Underworks, T-Kingdom, Shapeshifters, and Gynecomastia Solutions. There are also chest binder donation programs to provide for those who cannot afford a new binder sold by a retailer. Length options are short (covering only the chest and underchest), medium (covering all of the chest and the stomach), and large (covering all of the chest, stomach, and hips). Sports bras One or multiple sports bras can be worn to help flatten the wearer's chest. But the safety tips provided above should be adhered to also.

The wearer can choose a sports bra 1 size smaller than their bust size. There are also "no bounce" sports bras. These can be purchased at an athletic store or a department store.

Layering Clothes can also be layered in a way to obscure the chest "bump" from view. A fitting shirt can be worn underneath a large oversized shirt, with or without a commercial binder, sports bra, and/or trans tape. Please always keep the safety tips above in mind! Wearing camisole shirts with built-in bras can also work for layering. The trick is to wear the shirt backwards, as it's tighter in the back for support and looser in the front to accomodate breast size. The hem of the shirt can then be folded under the top part to provide extra layering (most effective with smaller bust sizes). Neoprene & Pantyhouse I uncovered this while I was researching - the waist portion of pantyhouse can be cut and used for chest binding. This is only recommended for emergencies and should not be the wearer's sole go-to for a binder. It also shouldn't be worn for more than 6 hours. Neoprene is a breathable rubber material that's used for orthopaedic braces (e.g. back, neck, arm, knee) that can be used for chest binding also. I combined these options because both sound iffy to me. Commercial binders, sports bras, and even trans tape is more of the way to go. Kinesiology tape (KT) ("Trans tape") Unlike plastic wrap, duct tape, ace and elastic bandages, trans tape use medical-grade adhesives that's safe and gentler on the skin. Tape comes in different sizes also, or widths I should say. The bigger a wearer's chest, the wider KT tape they'll need. This will enable the wearer to get the most out of wearing the tape, as it can only be worn once before getting disposed of. Trans tape can be found online above from the businesses who sell commercial binders. And since KT tape is mainly used for orthopaedic support, it can even be found at grocery stores and pharmacies.

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Although some resources say trans tape works best on smaller chests (as do all binding methods), I also think trans tape works well with larger chests. It takes practice with how to use the tape (how much to cut, wear to put it, how to tuck away the breasts enough to give a "flat" look), but when done right provides a rewarding experience. Sarashi wrapping fiber Sarashi, or "bleached cloth" in English, is a binding method rooted in Japanese tradition. It's white cloth, usually cotton (sometimes linen, but less likely) that's wrapped tightly around midriff up to the chest.

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It's been used for various purposes around the world, including chest binding. Edit(s): * Some cisgendered women also bind their chests!

Sources


  1. https://www.sharp.com/health-news/chest-binding-tips-and-risks.cfm

  2. https://www.pointofpride.org/blog/binding-101-tips-to-bind-your-chest-safely

  3. https://www.bustle.com/wellness/6-things-you-may-not-realize-are-getting-in-the-way-of-a-good-nights-sleep

  4. https://www.wikihow.com/Safely-Bind-Your-Chest-Without-a-Binder

  5. https://www.etainunderthings.com/fittings/binders/

  6. https://www.reviewed.com/health/features/what-is-chest-binder-how-does-it-work

  7. https://sarashi-binding.net/about-sarashi/

  8. https://thesewcialists.com/2020/07/31/all-chests-welcome-the-history-of-covering-chests-is-a-history-of-changing-them/

  9. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Sarashi

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